Catherine Taylor Nee Bennett

1939 - 2004
LocationNewcastle Upon Tyne
Age65 years
Cause of DeathCancer
Date of Birth21/01/1939
Date of Death05/03/2004
Visitors566 since 17/10/2008
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MY LOVELY NANA CATHY DIED 5/3/2004 SHE WAS ONLY 65, MY NAN WAS AN AMAZING PERSON WHO WOULD GO OUT HER WAY TO HELP ANYONE. MY NAN HAD A BRAIN TUMOUR WHICH TOOK HER LIFE ONLY 5 MONTHS AFTER BEING DIAGNOSED, THAT WAS THE WORST 5 MONTHS OF MY LIFE, NOT JUST FOR ME BUT FOR ALL THE FAMILY. OUR NIGHTMARE BEGAN IN OCTOBER 03 WHEN NAN WASNT FEELING TO WELL AND HAD A LITTLE FALL, WE TOOK HER TO THE HOSPITAL AND THEY SAID SHE HAD A WATER INFECTION. THAT SAME NIGHT I GOT A PHONE CALL FROM HER FRIEND TO SAY NAN WASNT FEELING TO GOOD AGAIN AS I ONLY LIVED A FEW DOORS ALONG I WENT. WHEN I WALKED IN NAN WAS COMPLAING OF HER HEAD HURTING SO I GAVE HER SOME PAIN KILLERS AND MADE HER A HOT DRINK THEN I SETTLED HER INTO BED, ONCE SHE WAS ASLEEP AND KNEW SHE WAS OK I LEFT TO GO HOME. NEXT MORNING I GOT A PHONE CALL FROM MY DAD TO SAY HE COULDNT GET ACCESS TO NANS BUT HAD RANG HER AND SHE TOLD HIM SHE HAD FALLEN. WE FINALLY GOT IN AND TOOK HER BK TO HOSPITAL, THEY TRYED ONCE AGAIN TO SEND HER HOME AS THEY KEPT SAYING IT WAS A WATER INFECTION UNTILL MY DAD HAD A FEW WORDS WITH THE DOCTOR AND THE HOSPITAL DECIDED TO PUT MY NAN INTO REHAB FOR A WHILE UNTILL SHE GOT A LITTLE BETTER. THERE NAN GOT A LITTLE WORSE AND WHEN THE DOCTOR CAME TO SEE HER HE WANTED HER STRAIGHT INTO HOSPITAL AS HER RIGHT SIDE WASNT WORKING PROPERLY AND HE THOUGHT SHE HAD HAD A MINI STROKE OR BLEEDING ON THE BRAIN..
FINALLY GOT HER INTO HOSPITAL WHERE THEY DONE ALL THE TESTS AND FOUND A GROWTH ON HER BRAIN AND NEEDED TO OPERATE, AFTER DOING THIS THEY SENT IT AWAY AND THEN TOLD US IT WAS SECONDARY WHICH WAS A MASSIVE BLOW, AFTER MORE TESTS THEY FOUND MY NAN HAD IT IN HER LUNGS AND THROAT AND GAVE HER 6 MONTHS.
NAN WAS SO BRAVE THROUGH ALL THIS AND ALWAYS HAD A SMILE ON HER FACE. NAN HAD LIVED ON HER OWN FOR QUITE A WHILE BUT MOVED IN WITH HER BROTHER BILLY AND SISTER IN LAW KATH WHO DONE A GREAT JOB IN LOOKING AFTER HER. WE HAD A WONDERFUL XMAS WITH HER AND BILLY AND KATH ORGANISED A BIG PARTY FOR HER 65TH.
NAN DONE REALLY WELL AND WAS HER NORMAL SELF UNTILL THE END OF FEBUARY WHERE SHE STARTED TO DETERIORATE AND WITHIN A WEEK SHE WAS BED RIDDEN, WE USED TO PUT HER MUSIC ON AND HER EYES USED TO ROLL AND HOLD OUR HAND TIGHT.. ME AND MY SISTER USED TO GO TO SEE HER EVERY MORNING WHEN I DROPPED MY KIDS AT SCHOOL THEN LEAVE AT 3 TOOK PICK MY KIDS UP. THEN ON 5TH MARCH I LEFT NAN AT 3 TO GO GET MY KIDS AND I GOT THE PHONE CALL A COUPLE HOURS LATER TO SAY NAN HAD PASSED AWAY :( WE WERE DEVASTED BUT KNEW SHE WAS FREE FROM THE HORRIBLE DISEASE..X

NAN LOVED CATHERINE COOKSON, SHE HAD EVERY BOOK AND VIDEO, U COULD GUARANTEE WHEN YOU WENT IN TO HER HOUSE SHE WOULD HAVE A VIDEO ON OR BE READING A BOOK.. SHE MUST OF READ THEM BOOKS OVER 100 TIMES HA, NAN ALSO LIKED HER MUSIC PATSY CLINE, DANIEL ODONNELL ECT, SHE ALSO GOT THE TASTE FOR MOZART ASWELL WHICH I USED TO TURN OFF WHEN I WENT IN.. NAN WAS ALSO AN ANIMAL LOVER ASWELL, SHE HAD HAD SOME ANIMALS OVER THE YRS..
LOVE AND MISS YOU ALWAYS NAN.... XXXXXXXXX
SLEEP TIGHT..XXXXXXXXX


THIS IS THE POEM SHE WANTED READ OUT AT HER SERVICE...

DO NOT STAND AT MY GRAVE AND WEEP
I AM NOT THERE I DO NOT SLEEP
I AM A THOUSAND WINDS THAT BLOW
I AM A DIAMOND GLINT IN THE SNOW
I AM THE SUNLIGHT ON RIPENED GRAIN
I AM THE GENTLE AUTUMN RAIN
WHEN YOU AWAKE IN THE MORNING HUSH
I AM THE SWIFT UPLIFTING RUSH
OF QUITE BIRDS IN CIRCLING FLIGHT
I AM THE SOFT STAR SHINE AT NIGHT
DO NOT STAND BY MY GRAVE AND CRY
I AM NOT THERE I DID NOT DIE...XXX



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Little did we know that morning
God was going to call your name.
In life we loved you dearly,
in death we do the same.
It broke our hearts to lose you,
but you did not go alone.
For part of us went with you,
the day God called you home.
You left us peaceful memories,
your love is still our guide.
And though we cannot see you,
you are always by our side.
Our family chain is broken
and nothing seems the same.
But as God calls us one by one,
the chain will link again.

Vicky Robinson (Granddaughter)

March 5, 2011

You left us quietly,
Your thoughts unknown,
But left us a memory,
We are proud to own;
So treasure them Lord,
In Your garden of rest,
For when on earth,
They were the very best.

Vicky Robinson (Granddaughter)

March 5, 2011

miss you:(

cant believe its been 7 yrs nan that u left us to go with the angels, hope your havin fun up there, not a day goes by i dont think ov you or spk you name.. love nd miss u forever, send all your strength down for dad as hes need it right now, with him goin through this horrible disease..... wish i cud just hear your voice or see u once more nan, miss our chat nd kno u wud be able to put things right xxxxxx

Vicky Robinson (Granddaughter)

March 5, 2011

HAPPY BIRTHDAY NAN XXX

another birthday without you nan, not a day goes by that i dont talk or think about you even after 6 yrs still miss u like crazy, always in my heart till we meet again :) xx

Vicky Robinson (Granddaughter)

January 21, 2011

XXXX

It was a sudden parting,
too bitter to forget,
Those who loved you dearly,
Are the ones who can't forget.

We often sit and think of you,
And think of how you died;
To think you could not say goodbye,
Before you closed your eyes.

Your life was one of kindly deeds,
A helping hand for others' needs,
Sincere and true in heart and mind,
Beautiful memories left behind.

May the God of love and mercy,
Care for our loved one who is gone,
And bless with consolation,
Those left to carry on.

Our family chain is broken,
Nothing seems the same,
But as God calls us one by one
The links shall join again.
God bless you xx

Vicky Robinson (Granddaughter)

June 26, 2010

love nd miss you

sorry havnt been on in a while nan but that doesnt mean i dont think and speak about you every single day.. love nd miss you xxxxx

Vicky Robinson (Granddaughter)

June 26, 2010

:-( miss you :-(

Thought of you with love today, but that is nothing new. I thought about you yesterday and days before that too. I think of you in silence, I often speak your name. All I have are memories and a picture in a frame. Your memory is a keepsake, with which I'll never part. God has you in His keeping, I have you in my heart..
Cant believe its been 6 yrs nan, just feels like 5 mins since i last saw you.... miss you like crazy.. xxxxxx

Vicky Robinson (Granddaughter)

March 5, 2010

HAPPY BIRTHDAY WOR KATH

Well Kath 71 today - six years since you went to have a glass of cider with the big guy. Six years and i think about you every day still and will think about you till the time comes when you can tell me how to go on up there - unless of course i go down instead of up (put a word in for me please ) Love and miss you kath have a good knees up with the angels for your birthday and i will have a drink down here with you.
your loving brother

William Bennett (Brother)

January 21, 2010

XX HAPPY BIRTHDAY XX

happy birthday to my great nan miss you always love chantelle, brogan and your granson harry whom you neva got to meet...

XXXX LOVE YOU XXX

Vicky Robinson (Granddaughter)

January 21, 2010

XX HAPPY BIRTHDAY XX

HAPPY BIRTHDAY NANA, LOVE ND MISS YOU LIKE CRAZY, HOPE YOU PARTY HARD UP THERE TODAY I KNOW YOU WILL LOL.. AS YOU LIKED A GUD PARTY..XXXXX

Vicky Robinson (Granddaughter)

January 21, 2010
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